Sharkman ( member #56818) posted at 12:14 AM on Friday, October 30th, 2026
It’s worrying about something that does not exist. You two are not married. People get married by making vows to one another. There is a legal component to marriage, but that’s just accounting.
She unilaterally ended the marriage without informing you when she decides to discards the vows - the only thing holding you together - by choosing someone else.
You’re simply doing her a favor by going to the lawyer. She always did the hard part, actually ending it. Now you simply need to get advice about how to get comfortable about what a legal divorce would look like. She ended the marriage. Isn’t it reasonable that you’d like to talk to someone to determine what your end of that dissolution looks like?
