Topic is Sleeping. 
			
				    				Tanner ( Guide #72235)		posted at 4:13 PM on Saturday, October 5th, 2024	
			 
	Yes this is healing, I remember this phase for me was taking her off that pedestal and knowing I will be ok with or without her.  
In the fun and games section here on SI is the quote thread.  There is a quote from member Underserving that has stuck with me.  
The thing is, I know I’d be ok without him. It’s the being ok WITH him that is taking work....
 
 
			 			Dday Sept 7 2019 doing well in R BH M 33 years		
	 	 			
				    				 Groot1988 (original poster  member #84337)		posted at 1:54 PM on Sunday, October 6th, 2024	
			 
	Tanner … 
Oh, that quote resonates with me. I am starting to relate to that, never thought I would ! 
 
			 			Married 5 years (together 11) Four children Me Bs 36Him WH 35- 4 month PA Dday Oct 6- lots of TT final disclosure Jan 16. 
"If we walk through hell we might as well hold hands, we should make this a home"- citizen soldier		
	 	 			
				    				InkHulk ( member #80400)		posted at 2:32 PM on Sunday, October 6th, 2024	
			 
	Thinking of you today on your first antiversary, Groot. Your growth this year has truly been inspiring and it’s been a pleasure to make your acquaintance. Make it thru this shit day and just keep growing. 
 
 
			 			People are more important than the relationships they are in.		
	 	 			
				    				 Groot1988 (original poster  member #84337)		posted at 10:20 PM on Sunday, October 6th, 2024	
			 
	Thank you ink 💓
Today was def something I don’t think I can put in to words yet. 
Oh. How life has changed. 
 
			 			Married 5 years (together 11) Four children Me Bs 36Him WH 35- 4 month PA Dday Oct 6- lots of TT final disclosure Jan 16. 
"If we walk through hell we might as well hold hands, we should make this a home"- citizen soldier		
	 	 
	 Topic is Sleeping.