Topic is Sleeping. 
			 
				    				 bw900 (original poster  member #47732)		posted at 2:46 AM on Thursday, August 25th, 2016	
			 
	She was both a cheater and a betrayed wife. Very sad story, really, but I found it gave some insight into the cheater's mind.  (I am a BW.) I don't condone their life in any way. Some good writing, I looked up many words, so learned something there. 
 
 
	At 19 months I am still seeking answers to the why's. I wouldn't recommend this book to anyone JFO! I tend to pain shop, so this is part of that process, I think.  Not the best book, but it's out there and not terrible. I was searching the library for books on marriage and this was on the list. 
 
			 			Me: BW 68 (59 at dday) WH: 69 (60 at dday)D-day 1/2015 EA/PA 1.25 year w/COW M 31 yrs,  4 grown kids Reconciling, which is not easy! Still Grieving what I thought our M was and who I thought he was		
	 	 
	 Topic is Sleeping.