Sometimes it takes your world falling apart in order to build it up better than before.
Divorced 12/4/2021.

4 years and so much better

So. Its been four years since my ex husband left me for another woman. One year since I've been divorced.

In the last four years I have blossomed and discovered so much about myself. I am about to get my BA, will have my masters and two teaching credentials in another 3 years. I am surrounded by people who care and support me.

I won't lie, dating is hard. My relationship with my ex ruined sexual intimacy for me, so any future relationships won't have that aspect. However, the person I did date for about 2 years was absolutely incredible. They showed me so much of what a healthy relationship was. Although we didn't work out, we are now best friends. He's super supportive and is always there.

I won't lie. Occasionally I check up on my ex. Why? I am terrified he'll move closer to me again, and its not something I want. It terrifies me. However, I also get some giggles at watching his life implode. He told all his friends he cheated because I was holding him.back and I was the reason for all the problems. Its lively to see how wrong he was and it shows everyone that he was the problem in his own life.

I do miss him sometimes. But we were together for over 10 years. It makes sense. I'm missing what we had in the beginning. I know I'm better off now tho.

Just thought I'd share since it's been years since yall helped me out.

2 comments posted: Sunday, November 13th, 2022

Gaming

Any other gamers here? I'm a big Playstion fan, and I find that killing zombies is a fantastic stress relief.

For those who are gamers, what's your favorite game/series?

24 comments posted: Monday, June 19th, 2017