nogoodap1 ( member #38595)		posted at 4:31 AM on Thursday, May 7th, 2015	
			 
	I hope I'm not over stepping boundaries here. But TrulySad's birthday is tomorrow (May 7th) and I want to know if she can be added to the list. I love her so dearly and I hope she has a wonderful day tomorrow. 
 
			 	 			
				    				lost41 ( new member #46702)		posted at 12:30 AM on Sunday, May 31st, 2015	
		 			
				    				Want2babettrme ( new member #43291)		posted at 12:42 AM on Sunday, May 31st, 2015	
			 
	My birthday is May 6. Just turned 56 y.o. 
 
			 			BC due to Dad's affair, BBF due to WX fiance's cheating in LDR. 		
	 	 			
				    				 BrokenRoad (original poster  member #15334)		posted at 3:28 AM on Monday, June 1st, 2015	
			 
	ON birthdays for friends: 
 
 
	========================= 
 
 
	We really only do a birthday if they want to have a cake, themselves. 
 
 
	If you want, feel free to give them a cake on here, yourself, if they are not on the general list. There is a help thread on how to post pictures in FAQ. 
 
 
	I don't mind. 
 
 
	But I myself would not do one unless asked. Sometimes people dont like to have them acknowledged for whatever reason. I'd hate to step on toes.  
 
 
			 			{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*		
	 	 			
				    				 BrokenRoad (original poster  member #15334)		posted at 3:30 AM on Monday, June 1st, 2015	
			 
	
 updated to here. 
 
 
	Remember now I have my June list. 
 
 
	If you want to be added for June, make a note here, and I'll try to check on a weekly basis. 
 
 
	Thanks! 
 
 
	BR
[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 9:48 PM, May 31st (Sunday)] 
 
			 			{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*		
	 	 			
				    				sullymeishadomi ( member #16305)		posted at 3:32 AM on Monday, June 1st, 2015	
			 			
				    				nme1 ( member #44360)		posted at 12:14 PM on Monday, June 8th, 2015	
				Me: BS
Him: WS
M 16 yrs 2 x DS
D-Day 6th March 2014		
	 	 			
				    				NorthernDark ( new member #47980)		posted at 4:24 AM on Wednesday, June 17th, 2015	
			 
	I guess I haven't been part of "the club" long enough to have had my birthday added to the list....tomorrow is my BIG 40!!! It's my first birthday alone...but I have had many of friends and family members already make it memorable... 
 
 
	Here's to "the new 30"!!!! 
 
			 	 			
				    				lilies21 ( member #35833)		posted at 7:55 PM on Thursday, June 18th, 2015	
			 
	A little late but mine is coming up: June 21. 
 
 
	Thanks! 
 
			 			Me: BS, 30s.
One son. 
Many D-Days for excessive porn, Craigslist ads, and EAs/PAs. 
Happily divorced since September 2015.		
	 	 			
				    				strongerdaybyday ( member #40264)		posted at 7:59 PM on Thursday, June 18th, 2015	
				Me-BW Him - WH  
Married 6 years, together 15 years 
3 awesome and beautiful children
OC discovered on Dday - born in 2005
D-Day Summer 2013  
working towards D...I can't pretend anymore
**If I edit I'm correcting a typo!**
		
	 	 			
				    				Exit Wounds ( member #32811)		posted at 8:02 PM on Thursday, June 18th, 2015	
			 
	December 18 I will be 29...again. 
 
 
			 			Exit WoundsH of 17 years got gf pregnant, left our kids 9 & 11 and we never saw him again. -His choice.		
	 	 			
				    				JanetS ( member #2766)		posted at 10:43 PM on Friday, June 19th, 2015	
			 
	Happy birthday to me!  Today is my 63rd  birthday.  :) 
 
			 	 			
				    				serious ( member #46176)		posted at 7:54 PM on Friday, June 26th, 2015	
			 
	June 10th. just turned 42. 
 
			 			Me(BS):43
WW:41 (lesbian AP friend's wife)
DDay: 10/22/14 confronted 4/9/15
DD-9 DS-12
Divorcing		
	 	 			
				    				TheRealDeal ( member #39560)		posted at 2:10 AM on Tuesday, June 30th, 2015	
				Me (BS): 47 him (Xws): 55
together 18 years 
DDay1, DDay2, Dday 3: March - June 2013
Dday4 + June 2015 through January 2016
Status: done  I called it quits 1-6-2016
The hardest part of letting go is realizing there wasn't much left to hold on to		
	 	 			
				    				 BrokenRoad (original poster  member #15334)		posted at 3:21 AM on Wednesday, July 1st, 2015	
			 
	updated to here. 
 
 
 
	So much for checking weekly, that didnt happen! 
 
 
	
 
 
			 			{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*		
	 	 			
				    				SMSA925 ( member #43955)		posted at 1:46 PM on Tuesday, July 7th, 2015	
			 
	Today is my 57th B'day. Yay. 🎂🎈🎉😢 
 
			 			Me: BS; b. 1958
Him: WH b. 1952
Together since 1982, Married 20yrs at DDay#1
DDay April 17, 2014; DD#2 2/15
My ducks lined up, life is good!		
	 	 			
				    				SMSA925 ( member #43955)		posted at 1:46 PM on Tuesday, July 7th, 2015	
			 
	Today is my 57th B'day. Yay. 🎂🎈🎉😢 
 
			 			Me: BS; b. 1958
Him: WH b. 1952
Together since 1982, Married 20yrs at DDay#1
DDay April 17, 2014; DD#2 2/15
My ducks lined up, life is good!		
	 	 			
				    				gggg ( member #48533)		posted at 8:12 AM on Thursday, July 9th, 2015	
				Me: BW, I celebrate anniversaries of my 39th!
Him: WH, 63 
Married: 30 years
D-day: 5/28/15,EA/PA
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There is a difference between giving up and knowing when you've had enough.		
	 	 			
				    				daybreaker ( member #48244)		posted at 7:33 PM on Saturday, July 18th, 2015	
				BW (me) 38
WH (him) 39 (deday76)
M 10/8/11 D 9/14/15
adopted my kids (12&14)
Dday #1 5/27/15 with TT
Dday #2 6/15/15 full truth on OW#2 but not the other A's
Dday #3 6/16/15 full truth, told about EA and OW#1
Tried R, couldn't forgive,		
	 	 			
				    				 BrokenRoad (original poster  member #15334)		posted at 3:25 AM on Thursday, July 30th, 2015	
			 
	Updated to here. 
 
 
	Get ready for August birthdays!! 
 
 
			 			{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*