Topic is Sleeping. 
			 
				    				 Justme77 (original poster  member #60638)		posted at 7:59 PM on Tuesday, October 3rd, 2017	
			 
	By Linda J McDonald.  It is a good and quick read.  I underlined the important stuff for WH and I almost underlined the entire book! 
[This message edited by Justme77 at 2:00 PM, October 3rd (Tuesday)] 
 
			 			Me: BS, mid 50s.
Married for 10 years, together for almost 20 years.
WH: 61, OTR Truck driving husband.
Kids; DS from previous marriage, late 20s.
DS: mid teens
DDay: 9/3/17		
	 	 			 
				    				foreverlabeled ( member #52070)		posted at 3:00 PM on Thursday, October 5th, 2017	
			 
	Yes it's a good read! I am thankful that it's out there to help us. I read this book 4 days after dday, and what's in there, is a lot of the advice newbie WSs receive here. 
 
 
	The earlier a WS reads it, the sooner we can create a safe place for our BSs. That's assuming of course we are remorseful and the A has ended. 
 
 
	Highly recommended. 
 
 
	And bonus! You can download it for FREE! 
 
			 	 			 
				    				 Justme77 (original poster  member #60638)		posted at 5:32 PM on Friday, October 6th, 2017	
			 
	I will attempt to get my WH to read it this weekend. He's only home on weekends.  I didn't know it was available for free. I got it second hand on Amazon for cheap though. 
 
			 			Me: BS, mid 50s.
Married for 10 years, together for almost 20 years.
WH: 61, OTR Truck driving husband.
Kids; DS from previous marriage, late 20s.
DS: mid teens
DDay: 9/3/17		
	 	 			 
				    				limitedenergy ( member #59462)		posted at 10:51 PM on Friday, October 6th, 2017	
			 
	I could never find a place to download it for free, but we bought the audiobook.  I didn't read it, but my WH did.  He found it helpful, and I noticed some positive changes in him after he read it.  I think it's a short read, less than 100 pages, I think he listened to the whole thing in two evenings. 
 
			 	 			 
				    				runsmiley ( member #33572)		posted at 9:06 AM on Thursday, October 19th, 2017	
			 
	I bought this the last time and just donated it recently. Guess I need to buy WS a new copy if there's a chance he'll read it. Better chance for the audiobook. 
 
			 	 
	 Topic is Sleeping.