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				    				 onlytime (original poster  member #45817)		posted at 1:55 PM on Wednesday, June 17th, 2015	
			 
	Had an appointment with my IC this week and she recommended that I read "Women Who Love Too Much" by Robin Norwood. 
 
 
	I have requested it from my local library and am wondering if anyone has read it before and, if so, did they find it helpful at all? 
 
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				    				HFSSC ( member #33338)		posted at 8:12 PM on Friday, June 19th, 2015	
			 
	I read it years ago and it was life-changing for me. Followed up with Melody Beattie Codependent No More. 
 
 
	To me, it was a profound picture of the dynamics that lived inside my head and why I kept trusting and falling for the absolute wrong-est, worst people while avoiding decent, healthy, "nice" men like the plague. 
 
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				    				 onlytime (original poster  member #45817)		posted at 8:39 PM on Friday, June 19th, 2015	
			 
	Thank you so much for your response HFSSC. 
 
 
	I just listened to the Codependent No More audiobook last month and that was such an eye-opener for me.  I have been working very hard on addressing the codependency. 
 
 
	I read the summary online for Women Who Love Too Much and was struck by how much it sounded like me.  I hope that it will be a life-changing book for me, as it was for you! 
 
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				    				Too_Trusting ( member #99)		posted at 4:23 PM on Sunday, July 12th, 2015	
			 
	I also read it many years ago (I'm 15 years from D-day), and like HFSSC said, it was life changing. I saw SOOOOOOOOO much of myself in that book. Definitely worth the read. 
 
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				    				 onlytime (original poster  member #45817)		posted at 4:54 PM on Sunday, July 12th, 2015	
			 
	Too_Trusting: 
 
 
	
it was life changing. I saw SOOOOOOOOO much of myself in that book. Definitely worth the read.
 
 
 
	I was finally able to get a copy of it from my local library about a week ago.  I am just about to start Chapter 8.  I have been making notes of everything I have connected with in my journal and have filled up half my journal already.  I am seeing myself in almost every page.  I am feeling a shift in myself. 
 
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				    				Frosty123 ( member #48528)		posted at 4:12 PM on Monday, July 13th, 2015	
			 
	I'm glad to see this here, I was wondering about the book too. 
 
 
	I will have to find it at my library. Thanks 
 
			 	 			 
				    				HFSSC ( member #33338)		posted at 1:49 AM on Tuesday, July 14th, 2015	
			 
	I always forget this forum for some reason. Glad I saw this thread again. I am glad you are finding the book as helpful as I did. 
 
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				    				4everfaithful83 ( member #41761)		posted at 1:15 AM on Saturday, August 22nd, 2015	
			 
	I got a free sample of this book (first 40 pages) on my Nook, and I really liked it. I'm going to purchase it for sure. 
 
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				    				 onlytime (original poster  member #45817)		posted at 1:38 PM on Tuesday, August 25th, 2015	
			 
	I am so glad that I borrowed this book from the library and read it.  I made a ton of notes from it in my journal and then over the past couple weeks I kept thinking to myself that I really should buy it, so I can have it as a constant reference and make notes in it if I want to. 
 
 
	It arrived in the mail yesterday and I am beyond thrilled!! 
 
 
	Of all the books I have read since d-day this is the one that has helped me to really see, acknowledge and work on the severe codependency that has played a part in my life for as long as I can remember.  It has been instrumental in helping me to heal and grow. 
 
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